If You’re One of Those People Who Wears Black All the Time, I’m Talking to you!
by aviva
Does it drive anyone else crazy to see people dressed all in black? Especially in the summer or at a wedding? I know it’s chic and slimming and whatever, but it’s also boring and depressing and hot!
Color psychology is the study of the effect that color has on mood, emotion, and even behavior. It’s sort of an alternative field of study used mostly by marketing and advertising departments and interior designers. According to experts, black does evoke style, power, and mystery – but it is also associated with death, formality, fear, evil, sadness, anger, and remorse. Too much black is overwhelming!Since today is the first day of summer, I feel obliged to point out that black absorbs heat more than any other color – and to better spot bugs, it is recommended that you wear light-colored clothing. Just something to keep in mind!
It’s not that I never wear black – I just never wear ALL black. For those of you who are addicted to soot, here are some simple ways to break the habit, courtesy of coveryourhair.com.
- Red stimulates energy, enthusiasm and confidence. Be confident in a red cable cap.
- Orange is a warm, fun, social color. Hit a party in an orange paisley headband.
- Yellow is optimistic and happy, and it encourages communication. Wear a yellow cotton tichel to confront the dude who blocked your car in your driveway, or to tell your neighbor to cut her grass already!
- Green is soothing, refreshing, peaceful. Try putting on a wide green striped headband when you’re expecting a stressful day.
- Blue is associated with trust and commitment, calm and cool. Hmm, that kind of solves the mystery of why brides are supposed to wear it! Wear a blue flower hair clip to a wedding this summer to provide some good vibes!
- Purple evokes creativity, spirituality, and royalty. Be queen for a day in a purple studded head wrap.
- Pink reminds people of romance and youth. It has red’s energy, but without the aggression. Go girly with a pink floral bandana.


Walking down the street
You see those girlies in the heat
The Bais Yaakov maidels
Looking so aidel
But beneath the black and dark
Is something sinister-hark!
It’s the desire to wear color and fun
But sadly we gotta blend in with everyone!!
(Hehe, came up with that on the spot)
Anyhow Aviva, I remember the scoring system red gets big points!
Just BY THE WAY- I bought something with ORANGE in it.. I knew I was socialable
See you on Wed!
Actually, red symbolizes \midat/midas ha’din\ (G-d’s attribute of judgement), sooo I’ll pass on the red!
And some people don’t wear it because it’s considered the most eye-catching colour, ergo not very modest. Apparently Coca Cola patented its shade of red in advertising because it was found to be the most attractive shade scientifically or something like that…
Pink, blue, purple, and orange. I knew I loved them all for a reason. I love dressing my kids in orange. I love to wear pink and blues. Social colors, warmth…Thanks so much for this blog! It was so enlightening!
No wonder green works so well for me when I’m stressed. I’ve always seen it as my favorite color, and it’s my power color, giving me strength when I need it.
I wore all black on this first day of summer, down to my headcovering. When I went to the pool, my bathing suit was a one-piece with a skirt, and it was also fully black.
When I want to wear it, I wear it, and I don’t want to break my “habit”. Do I do it all the time? No. But don’t think it’s a problem whatsoever when I do feel like it. Maybe tomorrow I will wear pink, red, or blue. Or maybe more black.
In some cultures, white is evil and black is good (exa: Japan).
Oh, blue being my favorite color but I don’t think I like to wear just blue. I would look like a big blueberry…lol.
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That was really intersting! I do wear black most of the tiem,maybe I should add some color this summer
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I agree. Wearing the same color, especially black, all the time gets boring. Always great to break out of your routine, and you never know if you look fab in another color!
btw, your list reminds me of those personality quizzes
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One of my favorite colors is teal
I rarely wear black at all, though I do like it sometimes… just not completely black
I love wearing blue but I’ll admit it, I wear a lot of black.
I should add more color into my wardrobe! Great post!
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I really like black though lol. No I don’t wear all black very often though… but it doesn’t bother me at all when someone does.
I hate when people wear all black, especially at a wedding. A wedding is a happy occasion, not a funeral. And the halls are usually dim so it’s even more upsetting. Wear a fun color to help you get into the wedding spirit. Everyone should have a nice black skirt and maybe a little black dress but that should not be the only thing in their wardrobe. If you can’t get rid of black, wear a colorful top or colorful accessories. Definitely minimize black in the summer as well. I get hot looking at people wearing all black in the summer. Black may be slimming but it’s not flattering to see people all sweaty because all the heat is being absorbed.
Good informative article! I never dress all in black, even for a funeral.
It’s okay for a cocktail dress, but accessorize it with some color or white for contrast and to break it up a little. For somber occasions, I am likely to wear navy or dark purple instead.
Yeah I have always thought that BLACK was way overrated! I mean there are so many more other colors you can choose from! But sometimes its find to wear a simple black dress
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While I do like mostly wearing black, perhaps I will add color!
I wear black skirts but with colorful tops & matching teichels. My daughter got married in Jan. & my son’s getting married on Thurs., iy’H & I refused to even try on a black gown, even tho’ I’m a larger size… almost all the guests are in black, but I’m in champagne/gold (I guess of the yellow~ happy/optimistic~ family!!)
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In high school I used to wear mostly black, gray and white. I don’t know how people wear all black when it’s hot out! I start sweating just by looking at them!! People used to tell me I should wear more color! I finally took their advice! Now my favorite colors to wear are red, green, and anything in jewel tones. I’m not afraid of color anymore! Although I usually stick to wearing black skirts so I can wear whatever color shirt I want!
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My SOn is getting married July 9th and the wedding colors are black and white with accents of Plum.
I am wearing all black with a plum tank under to give a lil color.
I love to wear black.
Thanks for the awesome ideas.
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I admit..I wear alot of black but my favorite colors are purple and pink.
In the summer I try to wear lighter colors because its so hot here.
Nothing shows cooking grease stains like all black so I don’t wear that very often!
I love pinks and bright tropical colors.
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My mother-in-law actually met me at a wedding before I ever met my husband because she was intrigued by the fact that I was wearing a pink, purple, and white (in Burberry style) gown and stood out from everyone else’s black. She then told my husband that he had to meet me. Definitely pays to stand out from the crowd and wear warm,social colors.
One of the reasons I got into the pretied bandanas a couple of years ago is that they’re so much more colorful and “alive” than snoods!!
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Black is just too hot for summer
My favorite colors this year have been royal blue and canary yellow! so much depth yet so much brightness! I love the contrast.
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I love bright colors for summer
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That’s good to know and motivating me to add some color to my wardrobe. Thanks!
Now I understand why my favorite color is blue! It goes with my personality- calmness, maybe sometimes too calm…
Yet, as a mother of 5 I sometimes get into that black mode; it is just easy black t-shirt with denim skirt or black top with black skirt it is just an easy fall back outfit that never fails and is easy to match accessories with!
I love splashes of pink or purple to accessorize my black clothing!
I always wear black with a splash of color, like pink or green!
i wear black, but will add color to it by wearing diff color shoes and belts!
Blue’s my favorite color, but I don’t think it fits me all that well personality-wise. Calm is probably the last word I’d use to describe myself.
I love color, but I also love black. I’d never wear all black. Maybe black on the bottom–for the slimming effect. Love pink (none of that harsh aggression red). and, everyone in my family looks good in all shades of green. Sure hope I can get this to post!
I def dont wear black all the time, but i wish i did!
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Tziona S., that is the cutest story I ever heard!
Chayala, good for you!
Michal Ramos, interesting…I never knew that.
I live in GA and its too hot for black right now!
Jewel tones are very in right now.
Interesting to know. I know someone who always wears black and he always looks so hot in the summertime. I personally love having a colorful wardrobe, it is good to know what the colors represent.
I wear alot of black especially for work. I do try to mix in a color. Not always successful though.
I dont think there’s anything wrong with wearing black in the summer unless you do it all the time. I like to switch it up.
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So I don’t always wear black because it looks like your going to a funeral or something very sad. If i wear black it would be with some color. Also when I wear black it makes me so hot. Also black goes with everything!!!
My son loves black.
I love turquoise! Wonder what that color stands for? It makes me feel cool and refreshed like when being surrounded by water in a pool. Love it.
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I love to change up colors, especially with the seasons. Black can also be done well when it is part of a pattern or grounds another color.
I almost always wear something black but that’s just because it’s conveinent but usually make sure to wear some bright color with it. I think I’ve only worn all black once or twice but I still wore a colored headband or bandanna.
i very rarely wear all black – i just don’t usually like how it looks. i do have a black lace trimmed skirt i love to wear with a black top, it looks kinda new yorkish and cool. that’s my only all black outfit tho, just don’t like it much.
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GO COLOR!!!
Wearing all black is depressing and possibly immodest!
There are always great studies on colors and their effect on our mental and emotional state. Black is a classic color but something is needed to break up the death/goth style, unless of course that what you’re aiming for. Red or even bling work nice.
This was very interesting. I’m going to have to pay attention next time to see if a different color helps my mood.
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I looove black combined with summer colors.Turqoise, coral and hot pink!What does that mean? :p
HaHa! love this blog post!
I can’t remember a day that I wasn’t wearing a article of black clothing! I usually wear black skirts, but many times my tops are black too! Black just looks the best on me and its practical!
Great blog on how to spice it up.
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LOL I am going to make sure my hubby reads this as he will ONLY wear black t-shirts!!!!! I used to be this way but have since added lots of color to my wardrobe and LOVE it!!
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I will admit that I only wear black shirts, but I have major sweat issues and black is the easiest color to wear to hide that!!! Any other colors you can think of that would do the same job?
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I have to admit that most of the time i wear black shirts, but lately i started to wear some light colors, which i love now
I agree completely. Every outfit needs some color–at least a belt or scarf or something that is not black!
I hate looking around and seing everyone wearing black. I wear black skirts very often, but almost never wear ALL black. I’m usually the only one in color at a wedding.
I wear a lot of black, but rarely wear solid black. When I do, I like to add a pop of color somewhere – like a headband, jewelry or even shoes.
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i agree! i enjoy wearing black as an accent color but not all black. black is slimming so maybe that’s why some wear it all the time. thanks for a great article!
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Love the slimming effect of black on my bottom half. Love colors, especially shades of pink (no harsh aggression red) and all shades of green.
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Everything in moderation!
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To work, I wear a black skirt, and every day a different colored top. Nothing bright or catchy. During the weekend I wear a khaki or jean skirt and the same tops as during the week. Working with young kids it is very important to wear different colors